Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Addie Grace's visits with Family & Friends

Addie Grace with Pastor Ray McCollum

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We were so blessed to have Pastor Ray come by our house while he was in town, and pray an amazing prayer over Addie Grace! I first attended Bethel at age 11 (25 years ago!) when Pastor Ray was the Pastor. He has been praying over us and our family basically my whole life!

Addie Grace with Campbell
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Pastor Rafe (Bethel Franklin) came by the same day as Pastor Ray, and also prayed over Addie Grace. A couple of days before then, Liz brought the girls by...along with an incredible yummy dinner ~ that lasted 3 days!

We are so very blessed by our amazing friends & family that have come by, called, emailed, texted, made dinner, PRAYED, brought gifts. One day I will take my friend Bethanie up one of her many invitations to bring me something or hang out soon! :)

She has been prayed over by 5 Pastors and countless friends & family. She is a testimony to prayer. She is a peaceful, amazing child! There is a peace that surrounds her that draws people to her. The Lord certainly has His hand over her life.

Here is Addie Grace with Peter & Nicki. Wonderful friends!
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Here is Mimi (my mom) with Addie Grace
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My parents have come over virtually every day since we've been home! They are also bonding with Addie Grace! They have been amazing and so helpful! Mom has gone out with me and her just about everywhere that we've had to go, and sits in the backseat and keeps her company and feeds her cheerios! My diaper bag weighs as much as her! I forgot how high maintenance babies were whew! I am so glad my parents live 7 minutes away! She always makes sure she wears a great necklace for Addie to play with, and Papa is always ready to tell her a good story!

Last week, Ken's parents were able to come up for a visit! They went to the grocery store and bought us food and made an amazing dinner! They also left us with 466 diapers! Yay! Here they are keeping her entertained! She loves her Grandma & Grandpa!
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Can you believe this is my house??? What furniture?

This Saturday we took her to see her Great Great Aunt Marilyn! We used to go over to her house in between church services on Sundays and eat the most amazing Southern Meal ~whew she's a good cook! She still brings her fried okra and Lemon Meringue and Chocolate Pies to our house on Christmas! She told me under no circumstance should I take her picture in rollers...oh well.
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Here is Addie with her beautiful Great Grandmother Peggie, who shares the same birthday with me and Addie Grace! (and friends Denise & Liz!)
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Addie Grace got hugs from her Aunt Loni!
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...and her Aunt Kellye
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There are others that we have visited and that have visited us...but no pictures! We are so blessed by the love of so many!

"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God." ~1 John 4:7

1st week Home with Addie Grace!

First Doctor's Visit!

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A Little 2 a.m. playtime...still jetlagged and learning when to sleep!
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Uh-Oh....She found Daisy's "Bling"! Daisy is so sweet with her. She comes up to her slowly, and every now and then gets a lick at her toes! Addie Grace just watches her and knows every time she comes in the room! She is still trying to figure out the cat. Kit was locked in Addie's closet meowing as she was trying to sleep...she thought that was funny!
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She loves the pool with her daddy! This was her first time in since we got home 1 1/2 weeks ago!
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I am so glad I had my camera...She is getting used to her car seat...she doesn't like to sit back or be strapped in, but this time she gave in, took her socks off and is demonstrating a mean "Chinese" splits for us! She's such a show-off.
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She is doing really well. She has shown so much improvement in the 3 weeks we've had her. This morning we had a specialist from TN early intervention services come out and evaluate her. She actually scored high, and didn't qualify for any development assistance right now!
She now will play on her own in the exer-saucer that Mimi & Papa bought her, and she sits in her swing, and the "Bouncer" that hangs from the doorway from the Penroses...she does a little "Riverdance" in there! She is babbling and laughs out loud! She is always smiley and loves to gurgle and stand up while holding my thumbs! SHE loves people and loves to be passed from one person to the next!
She still isn't crawling, but we put her on her tummy and encourage her to move! SHE doesn't mind the challenge!
She is now eating all American formula, and eats baby food great! and seriously...not only did God make TOYS..He made CHEERIOS! She can't put them in her mouth yet, but enjoys being fed them like a little bird!
AND....she sleeps THROUGH THE NIGHT!!! 9 hours! and 2 naps in the day! LOVE IT!

We are heading to a new pediatrician today for a consult. We are hoping for a better outlook and some encouragement as we work with helping her master skills.

Infamous "Red Couch" Pictures!

ok...So here they are. The "Red Couch" Photos are a tradition for adopted families who stay at The White Swan Hotel in Guangzhou.
The Qipao that Addie Grace is wearing was hand-made for her at "Tiffanie's" around the corner of our Jinfeng Hotel in Addie's Province of Jiangxi. We stumbled upon this place as we were walking around the hotel with travel mates Linda & Rich. Their daughter is Lydia...we ended up picking the same material for their dresses, and didn't even know it until the photo!

Here is the first of many great pictures! Lydia has fallen into Addie Grace (wearing the pink headband)!

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It's not tradition until the babies cry! Addie Grace wonders how she can help!
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Uh-Oh...Lydia's not happy again...
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Look at their hands...so adorable!!! Addie Grace is thinking she wants the rice puff in Lydia's mouth!
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More Babies!
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She was like "Seriously..you woke me out of my nap for this????"
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Family Picture by the Waterfall!
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Our Sweet Girl!!!
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Monday, June 29, 2009

Last Days in China!

Whew! Have our lives changed! Up until a couple of days ago, I was having to schedule a bathroom break with the "nap fairy"! It's virtually impossible to go to the bathroom while holding an 11 month old!
Luckily she can be put down without screaming..but I'll save the update for the next blog.
Here are some pictures of our last few days in China, when Blogger was COMPLETELY blocked!


A View of The Pearl River from the Breakfast Bar






This is an amazing sculpture made out of a tusk. There were many shops at The White Swan Hotel that sold exquisite items.
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We passed this beautiful picture several times in the hallway of the White Swan, and didn't realize until later that it is all made out of Butterfly Wings...
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Solid Jade Boat Sculpture. Huge.
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Alec in the Shopping area of Guangzhou...we didn't go there often
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I spy a Papa Johns. McDonalds, KFC. Yep. This made the 5-days left a breeze for Alec ~ definitely his saving grace!!!

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"Mommy's" Saving Grace
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The Pearl Market
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..in the 5-STORY Jewelry Mall...didn't really know fear until on the4th escalator of this mall holding a baby....
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A Lady tying off the pearls and adding a fastener to the pink pearls we got for Addie Grace's Sweet 16th
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view from our room at the White Swan...The Pearl River. It totally came alive at night! It was Beautiful!
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The Waterfall inside the White Swan Hotel
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ok...ok...blablabla...More Addie Grace Pictures comin' up!
Me with my 2 sweeties! Alec & Addie before we went to the Oath Ceremony at the US Consulate
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She LOVES her big Brother!

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Her smile is Golden!
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After 25 hours of traveling back to America...We were rushing through the Chicago airport to make our plane on time, after clearing immigration and customs....to find my parents AT THE GATE to meet us in CHICAGO!!! They had flown to Chicago the previous night to meet us at the airport and to fly back home with us!
That was the best gift ever...even though the plane was taking off in a few moments after we arrived at the gate, we made it! (I think one of the security officers heard me praying out loud in line ~ I did that alot... and let us go through a closed gate to get through security faster!) me and Addie Grace sat with mom, Jeff sat with Alec. It was a refreshing and welcoming sight to see them! Addie Grace fell asleep as I ran at the fastest speed possible through O'Hare bouncing her all over the place...I'll remember that when she is having a hard time sleeping in the future!
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Ahhhhh...America, America God shed his Grace on Thee...
I've never been so happy to be home in my whole life. Talk about a new perspective. I would've kissed the ground had I not just put on lip gloss!
Even though our bags didn't make it...we did. And that's all I cared about!

We had so many welcoming friends at the gate, and I had already cried enough, so I held it together long enough to hug everyone and pass Addie Grace off to anyone that would hold her. Unfortunately, the cameras were put away, so I have no pics...but it was an amazing thing to have been met by so many of our precious precious friends.

25 hours later....Home at Last!
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Friday, June 19, 2009

We're Home!!!!

Ahhhh...Back to "Paradise" and it's nice to be able to post on Blogger again without jumping through hoops! The last few days in China we weren't able to get on blogger AT ALL..

When I haven't taken a "Tylenol PM" (for a sore throat and sleep-aid :))...I will post more pictures and catch everyone up to date.

But for now...baby's sleeping ~ so must mom!

Me, Kenny & Alec are Soooo Glad to be home with our Addie Grace.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

More Pictures....

With our Amazing Guide Evelyn in Nanchang

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Trying to eat a noodle
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She'd rather play with it!
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Loving the fish in a tank at a Nanchang Restaurant
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On one of the many "infamous" Bus rides
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Our Awesome Bus Driver in Nanchang. He kept us alive as he drove us everywhere...Did we mention the traffic in nanchang...it's like watching "Frogger". No one crosses the street. Anything with 4 wheels is the enemy!!! In China People yield to cars, bicycles, scooters, etc...you risk your life every time you go out. However...if you hit kill someone while driving...the penalty could be death. Even though it is bad...everyone is patient.

Ken taught him how to "fist pump"! We didn't board the bus without that exchange!
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On a walk around our hotel in Nanchang...no hidden power cords here!
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Beautiful Girl...at the White Swan in Guangzhou
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Saturday, June 13, 2009

Day 8 In China!

We Made it to The White Swan Hotel in Guangzhou! God is Good! And so are my amazing praying friends & family!
Ken mentioned that it was a lot like Miami...ok...more like DEEP Central America. When we walked out of the airport, I thought the smog was worse here than anywhere. Um...that wasn't smog. It is STEAM!!! Oh my.

And we pretty much drove on a bridge from the airport to the White Swan. The roads are built up here.
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Here is Addie Grace and daddy in front of the waterfall at this ridiculously amazing hotel!

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Addie Grace Update: She's coming alive more and more everyday. She is grabbing things a little better and loves to "pick". She loves when we turn her to face us and loves to fall asleep on our chests. She laughs out loud when Kenny blows on her neck, and she talks a little bit, more like hums. She still doesn't do "dadadada" anything like that, but it's only a matter of time.

We have come to the conclusion that she has been held for her entire life. She has had everything done for her. She doesn't go to sleep without being rocked, and she doesn't like to be put down for any reason. This will be a hard habit to break...but in due time. We are here to bond for a while, not necessarily train. She has the sweetest disposition, and the Chinese people are smitten with her. She notices EVERYTHING...so it looks like she is a deep thinker. She loves kisses and smiles. When she wakes up in the morning, or from a nap, I try to get her attention with smiles before she cries...Her demeanor changes instantly.

In Nanchang, we found out that she was abandoned at a Bus Station. it breaks my heart to have to tell her that one day. I can't imagine this precious baby being left on a dirty floor of a bus station. I have cried every day since I heard.

I am thankful she is with us. She is a gift and has captured all of our hearts.

ok...more pics!

Addie Grace having fun with Alec on the walk from the Hotel to the Medical Examinations!
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To be entrusted with this little precious life, is something we don't take lightly. We love being her family, and she loves us!

On our way for all the babies' medical examinations! No...this is not a bad picture..It is "steamy" here!!!
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Addie Loves the Nurses!
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ok...and at referral they said that in January she weighed 16 lbs. and 26 inches long...well, it's Saturday, June 13 and she weighs: 16.2 lbs. and is 26" Long! She is a Peanut!!! So you parents adopting from China..It's true! Most referral info. is not 100% correct.

She, however did NOT like the doctor!!!
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She loves kisses from her mommy...and I love her kisses...full of drool from her teething and all!
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She loves her ladybug toy!
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On the walk back from the Exam...this is a beautiful part of Guangzhou, all the trees look like this and the buildings are all Colonial Style. We passed what we thought was a children's park until we saw all the adults working out.... We looked down a street and there were several older aged people playing badminton. I feel very safe and almost normal here. We even let Alec walk around on his own to wheel and deal...but reminded him not to buy anymore really cool lighters that can be confiscated at the airport...learned that the hard way in Nanchang...
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She still does not like her bath, even though I've been getting in there with her (no pictures of that!), and that has helped somewhat...So, we thought we'd try out the pool. Ken eased her in very slowly until she started splashing her hands in the water. Which is good, because she still does not move or use her arms and legs much.

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A Game of Uno...
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Some snacks from the 7-Eleven. Decisions...Decisions...
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Nanchang from the past couple of days:
There is no way to describe the elated feeling I had when our plane landed in Guangzhou. So happy to be on the final leg of our journey to Bring Addie Home. Nanchang was a surreal experience. No city in America comes even close to comparing to what we saw there. Even though this is the place where we met our precious daughter for the very first time, I was so ready to check out of that hotel. I was very glad to have had the experience to have been in the Province of Addie Grace's birthplace. As we were getting on the plane and ascending to our next journey, I couldn't help but feel a tad bit sorrowful that Addie Grace was leaving the place of her heritage probably to never return. My wonderful husband captured many amazing moments on film that she will have forever.

The view our room at the JinFeng Hotel in Nanchang. Harsh. Real. Expansive.
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Here is Alec with Addie at The People's Park in Nanchang
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She loves sticking out her tongue!
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Stare Down!
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Did I mention that she loves this toy???
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Ken and Alec rolling in a plastic bubble at The People's park in Nanchang
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First Ice Cream
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Some Random dude at the People's Park...He was engrossed
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Sweet Kids on a swing
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I spy an old guy fishing...this was a great "China" Shot:
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